SERVE

Direct Impact on Abortion-Minded Women and Abortion Business
It is thought that if a woman has made it all the way to the abortion facility for an appointment, her mind is irrevocably made up. That is not the case. While not everyone stops to talk or reverses their decision, some do. The reasons why are varied, but three include:

1. 1. We are a sign. Our mere presence is a reminder of what her conscience knows.
   2. We inspire confidence. Some lack courage that they can parent. When those fears are dispelled and they truly understand what the abortion is and does, they change their minds.
   3. We provide help and support. For those struggling with significant material needs, receiving care and assistance, such as a Pregnancy Care Team provides, gives them the fortitude to say “yes” to their baby and “no” to abortion.

These are some responses from women and couples who chose LIFE because of A Moment of Hope volunteers. See the stories tab for others.

“As we were walking in [for our abortion appointment] a lady said ‘God bless all three of you’ and I thought there’s me, her, and oh!…the baby! We can’t do this. We decided to leave.”

“You were like an angel at the end of the driveway. Who knows how this day would have ended if you hadn’t been there.”

“I was happy to have another one. I already have two, but it’s his first. He needed convincing. I didn’t. I think it was God’s will for you to be here and talk to him and God is working because he actually stopped [to talk].”

“I told [the counselor]: ‘the condition of our family is that we can’t manage to take care of our family because we have many kids. He said, ‘No, don’t do it. Jesus doesn’t allow us to have abortions.’ … I said, ‘I cannot do it. We are Christians…We accepted that [truth].’ [The counselor] started giving us counsel, how we’re going to live, how we were going to survive, and then [he] gave us money saying ‘buy what you need, you can buy gas, and I’m going to visit you guys.’”

Additionally, counselors have been able to help women by equipping their family members with truth and resources. Comments from two such individuals:

“What information and help are you offering? I have a godsister making a pregnancy decision, I want her to be informed.”

“You are a blessing from God. I have tried so hard to explain to my daughter. She doesn’t know all involved with this [abortion] process…please help my daughter save her baby and our grandchild. I don’t want to lose our grandchild.”

Indirect Impact on the Abortion Industry & In the Community
By being present, volunteers raise awareness about the existence of the abortion provider. Many are uninformed. Being present can also:

• • • Discourage potential hires at the abortion facility.
    • Motivate the landlord not to renew the lease (two businesses moved to new offices upon learning the landlord was also renting to an abortion provider).
    • Unmask the lies of the culture.
    • Open doors for conversation.

Many people stop to talk. Some say, “Thank you for being here,” including post-abortive men and women. Others ask, “Why are you here?” This provides an exciting opportunity to share about life in the womb and spiritual life through Jesus Christ.

For women seeking abortion:
Counselors are a voice for the preborn child, explaining how that little one is alive and developing and that the abortion will end his or her life and seriously impact the mother. They share with them about the God who created the life they carry, and ask where they stand with him. Compassionately listening to their struggles and concerns, counselors present solutions and assure them that they are not alone and that there are caring people who want to walk alongside them.

Help offered includes the following:

• • being a listening ear
  • strategizing how the concerns and fears of parenting or adopting could be overcome
  • connecting them to the pregnancy resource center
  • scheduling a free consultation with an OB-GYN
  • offering financial assistance if needed
  • pairing with a Pregnancy Care Team for a baby shower and support

For women seeking healthcare services:
Counselors have a list of no charge and low cost, high quality health care options and strongly encourage clients to receive their healthcare needs from providers that are not also profiting from abortion. As one woman who was very grateful for a cheaper alternative said to a volunteer, “I’m so thankful someone was here giving other options. Planned Parenthood is all we know.”

With all, we seek opportunities to share the gospel.

Our signs are simple messages conveying hope and help. If you see graphic signs depicting bloody or gory abortions, they do NOT belong to A Moment of Hope, or to our volunteers.

Constitutionally, we have a right to be in the public right-of-way, which is 8 feet from the curb. We stand next to the driveways within the public right-of-way.

First and always, with prayer! You will be entering a mental, emotional and spiritual battlefield where babies’ lives are ended. Bring a chair if you would like. We recommend a water bottle. A bathroom is not always available. Winter can windy and chilly; bring layers. Hand warmers are a great help also. For the summer sun, we recommend sunscreen and a hat and/or umbrella. Please dress tastefully and modestly in a way that won’t distract or deter clients. Avoid:

• • pro-life apparel
  • army or police apparel
  • camouflage
  • cameras or recorders

We provide signs. If you would like to bring your own, please bring one with a positive message and, depending on the day or time, be willing not to hold it up. Sometimes, too many signs can add an element of chaos.

You want to be perceived as an approachable person, not as a protester.

Parking & Children
Park on the curb. Do not park in the 2712 Middleburg Dr. / Planned Parenthood parking lots.    

Children are welcome if they can be contained within the 8 foot right-of-way. Please note the street can be busy, there are ants in the summer, and we occasionally hear profanity and are given rude gestures.

Our volunteers are men and women from all different backgrounds ranging from teenagers to senior citizens. As an evangelical, Christian ministry, we ask our volunteers to sign a Statement of Faith and Code of Conduct.

First, we encourage visiting the sidewalk to observe the ministry in action and for us to get to know one another. To become a regular volunteer, attend a training (see the Events page) and sign the Statement of Faith and Code of Conduct.

Most of our volunteers choose a regular weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly time slot. If you do not think you can take a regular shift, we frequently share needs for prayer and opportunities to fill-in as you are able.

Sidewalk counseling can be intimidating at first. At the outset, just come to pray and shadow experienced counselors. As time goes by, you will find your own voice and approach. Remember,  just being present is powerful, and we rely on God to work through us giving us courage and words.

Unless they choose to do so of their own volition, the teams do not directly help financially. Instead, they will assist the mother to resource financial aid. The expectations for the teams includes:

• • Investing in a relationship for one year as a friend, cheerleader and mentor.
  • Hosting a baby shower.
  • Touching base with her weekly by phone or text message.
  • Meeting with her monthly face to face.
  • Praying for and discipling her.
  • Helping her problem solve, identify available community resources and, as able, assist with practical needs. This might include transportation to doctor’s appointments, filling out applications, shopping, being a sounding board, teaching life skills, etc.
  • Maintain confidentiality.

The time commitment of each team member varies significantly depending on the size of the team, availability of the team members, and needs of the expectant mother. If we were to put a number on it, we might say 2 hours per week although some weeks might be more, especially at the beginning, and other weeks might simply involve checking in by text message.

Every care team member goes through a 3.5 hour training, covering topics such as:

• • difficulties the expectant mother may be facing
  • practical tips for communication
  • healthy mentoring relationships
  • safety
  • situations the team may encounter
  • real life scenarios
  • resources and further education

Additionally, teams are given a large document describing the different resources and services the mother might need (medicaid, daycare vouchers, housing, etc). A Moment of Hope is also available any time to answer questions teams may have and to coach and encourage.

When a sidewalk counselor meets a woman who wants a Pregnancy Care Team, a team geographically close to her will be contacted. If they accept the opportunity, the sidewalk counselor will facilitate an introduction. There is no way for us to predict when a mother in a team’s area will want a team. Some teams have waited days, others months before being matched. Recognizing that a team member’s life situation may change while waiting to be matched is why they are given an opportunity to accept to decline.

Once launched, that team is a ministry of their particular church and not of A Moment of Hope. A Moment of Hope offers ongoing support and mentoring to the teams as they want it.

A team model has proven beneficial for both the team and the expectant mother for several reasons. The two most important are:

1. 1. There is a pool of skills, experiences, and availability giving the mother great help and support, which most need.
   2. Given the magnitude of need that can exist, and depth of brokenness, one person can be easily overwhelmed. Having a team provides a built-in support system. They can share the care and emotional burden without compromising confidentiality or becoming burned out.

Contact us with your interest. We would love to talk with you about what it might look like. We can provide flyers and visit your church to explain how it works. The next step will be for you and those who want to form a team with you to attend a training. If you have a large group interested, your church can host the training.

Our teams have been anywhere from two to six people. The average is three. There is no specific limit, just a minimum of two.

Interns must be able to physically tolerate being outdoors year round and standing during their shift. Ideal candidates are available on weekdays for at least 7 hours per week between 7 am and 5 pm. We are looking for:

• • commitment to the Word of God, prayer, the local church, and the Great Commission
  • communication skills
  • dependability
  • humility
  • integrity
  • teamwork
  • cultural sensitivity
  • a willingness to learn and grow